Most Helpful Guy
It's hard letting go of someone that you loved, cared for and thought was the one even if you know it's best for you and deserve someone loyal and committed who will also give you back that same love. I'm in a similar situation and what I do is just think of why It wouldn't work out even tho if I miss her, want to know what she's up to, who she talks to, is she better without me etc. But I convince myself that I deserve better and I was strong for putting up with her. Take some time and just sort things out in your head you'll never forget him but the more you try yo take your mind off him the less pain there will be
Most Helpful Girl
Might I Suggest instead of just Making a Fast Getaway, @ellyyy, you take as Break Instead for now so you can do some soul searching and get all your thoughts in order. It's clear here, dear, you have a lot of Minding of your own Mind to do and if you do Anything too hasty right now you may not be Fair in game and name with someone who I feel just needs a taste of his own Medicine to Start... You have a sour ball about it and it can't go on much longer.
Tell him straight out as you firmly stand on your own two straw boss feet that you are taking this time for yourself to do some Thinking about this whole Stinking thing and you will be in touch. He has to be Aware of his Wandering ways and bad boy behavior and with some space, he may start Missing the Kissing along with your face.
He sounds immature and that he may not be into a Real Relationship. However, with a 'Break,' it's his last chance for romance and if he doesn't tow the line by the time you are back, tell him it's Over and that you are moving on Out... He's Dismissed
Good luck. xx