Most Helpful Guy
This guy (your now ex) sounds like a horrible horrible person, to take you away to somewhere you dont know to then dump you, leaving you stranded he sounds not worth your time. Id completely cut him out your life and find better if I were you.
Most Helpful Girl
Hell freaking no!!! Who the hell does he think he is? Disgusting! The balls, or lack of (ahem), on some guys! I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I'm sorry to say it will get worse before it gets better, but flush him down the toilet and don't look back. You deserve so much better.