I met this girl in school 4 months ago, she was struggling with everything (failing school, family issues, and boyfriend problems that he is never there for her, can't satisfy her, always arguing...) so i came along and i helped her with school and helped her through everything she started to like me she was like you were a miracle and we started talking as more than friends. i wasn't ok with the boyfriend thing and she said its ending just needs more time so i waitied since i really like the girl and it was hard on me to be with a girl that has a boyfriend. after 2 months she started catching feelings to me and saying can't imagine her life without me and how much she loves me, i love her too.
3 weeks ago i told her if she wants to be with me she has to leave her boyfriend cause i can't do it anymore. i gave her 2 weeks to think about it or end it or whatever. when the decision day came she was like i love you but i can't leave him for someone its just not the right thing to do after 4 years i was like you aren't leaving him for me you leaving him for your own happiness.. anyway she ended up choosing him, i was the only loser out of this equation and i was played for 4 months.
should i seek revenge i could simply send everything to her boyfriend, i really dont know what to do and i feel like i should payback cause i dont deserve what happened to me at the end of this whole thing.. what would you do?
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Revenge only ever really seems good in our phantasies. If you sent everything to her boyfriend, you'd most likely end up feeling bad and guilty. It's very unlikely it would satisfy you. As they always say: the best revenge is to walk away and be awesome. So I suggest you do that. I guess she's punished enough anyway because she's with a guy she's not happy with.1