We had been dating for 3 years 9 months, back to 9 month ago, I found him flirting with his colleague, then we had a fight, he told me " maybe we should break up, cuz I feel I love you more like loving a sister!". Then I cried so badly, he saw me cry then said "ok, let's try if this relationship works!". So we didn't break up, but in the past year, we rarely had sex, like once a month. 10 days ago, he came back from his colleague's birthday brunch, he told me he had feelings for that girl, for almost one year, and he loves me more like a sister. So I cried and we broke up. The first week after broke up I was so sad, I called him every second and message him a lot, but he didn't answer my call any more after he moved out of our flat. I have been calling him and message him for one week, even use myself to threaten him ( which is stupid). So now he blocked me on Facebook and everywhere. I can find him any more. When I was with him, he was always so nice, we did have pour fights, but generally we got along. It's been 10 days and I'm really suffering. Anyone knows would be come back or its forever over?
Ps: yesterday when I spoke to him, he told me clearly " I have been thinking for a week, and I don't think we are meant to be with each other, this relationship is forever over!". But I still have hope hat maybe he would come back?
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Leave it. Find a new person. I had this with my last ex. I fell out of love with her and yeah, saw her as a sister. No matter what I did to make it otherwise, I still wanted to cheat on her constantly and other women caught my eye more than her. Do you want this? Ms second best till death do us part? No. Move on.0
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... I feel I love you more like loving a sister!
He has now come clean with you, @Lily169, and with All the writing on the wall that you have Openly Admitted here, dear, it is quite clear he means it when he Says... I don't think we are meant to be with each other, this relationship is forever over.
I am so sorry to be the bearer of bad news but with someone who is treating you more like a sibling than a soul mate, he isn't just hymning and hawing, he is Meaning Business with even Blocking you 'Everywhere,' and this Includes you right out of his heart and hair.
I would have more hopes for Him and you if you had called it off and Still had love between you as a two birds of a feather, but he has come right out, being this Honest John, and with what he has said, put him out of your mind, this relationship has gone south.
Focus on you now. Lick your war wounds and Begin your own Beguine of Moving on now.
I don't feel the Past '3 years9 months' were a total waste of your time but mourning Forever.. Is.
Good luck and my blessings for a brighter future with someone more deserving. xx0