I recently gave a guy my number without him even asking for it while he was working. Honestly, it's the most outgoing and courageous thing I've ever done, but I was fueled by a small case of heart-shatter due to me not being assertive enough. He was very nice and flirty, so I figured it was worth the risk.
After I gave him my number, he did respond and we have texted a few times since the incident.
He has mentioned a few times about us getting together soon to hang out, even suggesting to meet up after I go back to school. But, since I'm home for college on winter break and he goes to a different university, it would be much easier of we could meet up before I left (only a couple more weeks).
So, based on the light amount of information I've provided about his actions, do you believe that he will ask me soon, before I leave for school?
Thanks very much for any thoughts. :)
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"He has mentioned a few times about us getting together soon to hang out."
"He was very nice and flirty"
He is interested
If you would like to pursue a "relationship" or hanging out / etc, I strongly recommend that you allow him the opportunity to be a man and court you. If you are overly assertive to your feelings and taking the lead, he will be left feeling wierded out (which could risk pushing him away).
You've given him your number, now just give him information of what you do / would like to do. If you want to go with more than that - mention your desire to go to chucky cheeses or something ;-) Have some fun WITH him at these places (Go in the kiddy section, in the ball area).
You already amazed ME, by giving "him" your number. Now amaze "him", by being patient but outgoing.
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