She IM'd me last night asking for a sad song. I asked why and she tried to give me crap about her liking her other ex again, but her other ex is going to date another girl really really soon. Out of frustration, I got p*ssed, told her I didn't want to hear it and logged off on her.
Why did she do this? Should I apologize to her, and if so, how should I do it? I still have feelings for her.
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It's obvious you still have feelings for her because of how you reacted. If she is aware that your feelings still exist then she's probably just looking for you to break her fall - basically a rebound, which would be messed up. I've been in situations where I was having guy problems and even if an ex was a good friend, if I knew he still had feelings I would not think of discussing it with him because I'd hate to hurt his feelings by placing him in the position of being "that guy" - the one that a girl expects to be there to console her when things go wrong.
You can apologize, but I would make it clear that it's unfair for her to put you in that kind of position when she's aware that you still have feelings for her. Basically, you can say, "Look, I'm sorry for the way I reacted the other day - I know it was a bit over the top, but I guess I was just caught a bit offguard by everything. I mean, I still have feelings for you so it's just a bit hard for me to play the role of a friend who you can discuss those sorts of things with...". Hope that helps!0