I need opinions. We are both 16 and She broke up with me cause she s moving away to a different school and didn t wanna do long distance and she likes this other guy that her and her friends hang out with and she said she would try long distance with him because he hangs out with them and is older and has his license and things so it s easier for them to hang out and hey started dating a few days after we broke up. I know it s not gonna last because she s not even sure if she wants a boyfriend right now. So now I need to know what to do if she texts me cause I know she will. And I wanna know what would hurt her more. Ignoring her texts she sends me? Or saying things along the lines of "You made your choice and left me for another guy. I think it s best that we don t talk." I need opinions on what would hurt her more. Please help. Thanks
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Hello. I think that if she is soooo willing to give it a chance with someone else then she didn't trully love you in the first place... Or maybe I'm just too romabtic, but as far as I know, if youblove someone it doesn't matter if its a long oe short distance relationship... You just love them and want to be with them and the circumstances are just things you deal with.
Ignorig her texts will hurt her more because she will think you don't care enough to answer, and if you do text back even if it is to say "mean things " (a. k. a. The truth) you will end up conversing and she will have you in the palm of her hand (pluss she will feel important since ypu take the time to argue with her)
Best of luck, and remember you are still so young. I'm sure future you would slap ypu in the face and say "look at the amazing and loving relationship I'm in now!!"0