So we got into a huge fight and broke up and we've been texting each other but haven't seen each other since, he tells me he loves me more than anything he just has a lot going on which I know. My friends who are also his told me he's trying to work on himself for us but I still have doubt. Half of me really wants to see him the other half knows I shouldn't because I'll break down and he says he really wants to be friends and hang out and stuff and he doesn't know now but maybe we can try again. I've heard that from my last ex and it didn't work out so naturally I'm worried. I know he's a vary honest person he's never lied to me (I would know I snoop A LOT) his friend just passed and he's having problems with his family and other stuff I'm sure it's a lot on someone. I want to be a good friend and supportive but I miss him so much. I do love him and I know he loves me and he told me if I want to I can hang out with other guys and mess around with them but I told him he's really the only guy I want. Obviously we're young and don't quite understand a real relationship (I'm almost 19 and he's 20) I'm just really confused. Today before he hung up he told me "I love you" then bye like we did when we were together and I said it back its just heart breaking I don't think I've ever felt so hurt and broken without someone because I'm usually an extremely independent woman but it's like through our relationship I always wanted to do things with him by my side. I'm just scared of losing him. Please help.
My boyfriend and I broke up, after a few days he told me he still wants to be friend and hang out can anybody enlighten me on this situation?
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He told you to see other guys. What more do you want him to say? He doesn't care about you and wants you to move on. Why are you being such a clinger? Have some self respect and kiss his ass goodbye. You have more value then he gives you. Be that independent woman you say you are and don't kiss this guy's ass.1
I think you'll have to let him go. if he told you to hang out with other guys, then it's over.0
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