We were 3 years together and after he dumped me we kind of stayed in touch on and off. He was giving me false hopes of getting back together. I officially cut him off completely a week ago. Now I'm back to day 1 when we broke up, crying all day and feeling pathetic. But I'm done with that, I'm not giving in this time. But I still love him and if he would come begining to get back together I would probably take him back. I know it's wrong but I'm just being honest here. Is something wrong with me for not getting over him for so long?
Most Helpful Guy
Not at all, there is nothing wrong with you. You are human and have emotions. The first mistake was to keep in touch after you broke up. I made that mistake before with a girl I had been with for 8 years, went on for 6 months, it played with my heart and my head. Just remember that an ex is an ex for a reason, and if it didn't work before there is little chance it would work if you tried again. Unfortunately the heart takes time to repair, you just need to give time, time. Don't give in, you are strong :) Hope this helps0
Most Helpful Girl
You're not getting over him because you're still maintaining contact. You're sad now because it's fresh but I guarantee as soon as a new guy comes into your life you won't care anymore. He was wrong to lead you on, that was selfish and incredibly pointless. Stop giving him the satisfaction of continuing contact and get him out of your system by first crying it all out, like literally weep for a whole day with whatever comforts item you have handy. Start exercising to get the depression and anger out, it works. Take care of yourself do something nice for you and allow yourself to feel happy, it probably won't be your last breakup. Don't forget to learn from this experience and take more precaution in the future. Give yourself to someone who deserves you when YOU feel ready again. Good luck, you'll be fine.0