We were 3 years together and after he dumped me we kind of stayed in touch on and off. He was giving me false hopes of getting back together. I officially cut him off completely a week ago. Now I'm back to day 1 when we broke up, crying all day and feeling pathetic. But I'm done with that, I'm not giving in this time. But I still love him and if he would come begining to get back together I would probably take him back. I know it's wrong but I'm just being honest here. Is something wrong with me for not getting over him for so long?
Most Helpful Guy
Not at all, there is nothing wrong with you. You are human and have emotions. The first mistake was to keep in touch after you broke up. I made that mistake before with a girl I had been with for 8 years, went on for 6 months, it played with my heart and my head. Just remember that an ex is an ex for a reason, and if it didn't work before there is little chance it would work if you tried again. Unfortunately the heart takes time to repair, you just need to give time, time. Don't give in, you are strong :) Hope this helps0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It took me a whole year to get over an ex. Like yours, he gave me false hope so prevented me from moving on. Now that you broke off contact, you can move on properly. You'll be fine. It just takes time. Stop thinking you're not moving on quickly enough. Just stick to the no contact thing.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE