Most Helpful Guy
Umm, he wants nothing to do with you, just give him space, he might come around at his own pace
Most Helpful Girl
You probably can't. You put this guy through a lot in the past and he probably finally realized that any sort of relationship with you is toxic for him. He may never want to be your friend because he will always want more... And why do you want his friendship so badly? He was always there for you, gave you multiple chances, and yet you still walked all over him. That isn't a girlfriend, and it certainly isn't a friend. Not to sound mean but it looks like you miss having someone to walk all over knowing you'd have their forgiveness every time than an actual functioning relationship with this guy. We can't choose who is there for us no matter what. And everyone has their limits. It looks as if you surpassed his unfortunately. Let him heal and move on. It's probably the best thing you can do for him.