Should I break up with my girlfriend?
What Girls Said 2
Personally, my boyfriend would have never dated me if I smoked cance-- I mean cigarettes. If you knew she was into them then why did you bother in the first place? Aside from that, it doesn't sound like she respects you at all. I think you care about her, but from what I'm hearing, she doesn't care too much about you, and somewhat more importantly, she doesn't care about herself. PERSONALLY, I would leave. I wouldn't waste my time in believing in someone who won't even believe in herself.0
You can't make her quit. No one can make anyone quit a substance but themselves. She may not be ready to stop smoking. It's addictive and she doesn't start again to annoy you. It's a habit. You're doing the right thing by encouraging her when she tries to quit, but putting her down constantly when she picks up again isn't helping. People always think whether it be with smoking or drug addiction "if the person really loves me they will stop" and that just isn't true. While love and support certainly can help someone stay clean, breaking a habit is up to the person effected and them alone.
If the habit really hinders your relationship this badly break up with her, and don't date a smoker in the future. It's okay to have preferences. But giving her ultimatums about smoking and your relationship isn't helping. She will only quit when she is truly ready to.0
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