I was very heartbroken and I couldn't cut him off, so we stayed in contact for next 6 months. I thought I could be friends but I was wrong. He was acting like the breakup never happened, he would still call me and stuff. Then I got a job there. I was getting ready to move there and I told him about it, but he said that doesn't change anything and that he just wants to finish school and get a decent job. I was heartbroken again and I finally let it go. I told him that I don't want to be friends, ever. So we stopped talking.
Fast foreward to now, it's been a year since I moved here and my life changed completely. I am so happy that I am here! My job is great and I have great friends. I have my own place and a really nice life. I stopped thinking about him eventually. But I haven't been in a relationship ever since. I dated a little but I just wasn't into it that much.
Well today he texted me. After so long! I was very suprised. I don't know what to think or how to feel honestly. He asked if I am still in his country and how am I doing. The thing is, I've been down that same road with him before, where he just wants to friendzone me. In the last 6 months after we broke up he would disappear and then call again, giving me signals like he wants me back, but then just bails out. I am afraid that he is doing it again.