for a long time i felt like i deserve this and I deserved this betrayal, and like I didn't matter. I'm so scared that i'll grow up and be surrounded by these types of guys and not find a "good one". I've learned a lot from this and I've gained a lot of confidence and what i think i should find in real men, but im scared ill never find one. how can i attract confident men who won't be so caught up in their own insecurities that the only help they can get is to control women?
Most Helpful Guy
Put simply, it is not your fault. This guy who abused you isn't worth thinking about. It is important to learn from it and now you can see the warning signs in future. Try and put it behind you. Not every guy out there is like that.
Most Helpful Girl
Like you said, you are 18 get over it move on with your education cause it's the one thing that won't disappoint you. Let the men come to you, and don't be afraid to talk to more than one cause you want to see who will benefit you the best