My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. I have faithfully not talked to him or contacted him in any way. I love him a lot and believe we had a good relationship. He broke up with me without giving me a chance to ask any questions or defend myself. I don't know exactly why he broke up but I am guessing he was overwhelmed with my insecurities and clingyness. We have never gotten into huge fights ending in break ups. I completely understand why he might feel fed up with me. He told me he doesn't love me and that he is happy alone. Do you think one day he will realize he still loves me and maybe give me another chance to be a good girlfriend?
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First off why do you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Second, if he didn't even let you defend your case he probably have made up his mind prior to it all and there's probably not a whole lot you can do to change that. If he is happy alone and have asked you not to contact him anymore I would respect that. If I ask a girl to never contact me, it's because I want to get over her. Bringing her back into the picture only reverses the healing process. Well it's also because I now resent the crap out of that person and want nothing to do with her.1