I had been talking / video chatting to a guy for about a month that I met on a dating site. We were going to be doing long distance for a few months, then it would become short distance. (Was already planning to move)
It was going really well. We had a ton in common, got along great, and we both seemed to feel such a mutual connection with one another. He was so into me and planning to come see me sometime in the near future. He even took his profile on the dating site down before I did and then I did too afterwards. He even referred himself to me as my boyfriend. Recently he had gone away to work and had a hectic schedule. He would text me typically in the morning and then at night briefly.
He had been ignoring me for the last 5 days. I thought it was because he was still working, (Which he was supposed to be until next week) but today I just reactivated my profile on the dating site and saw he was back on it and even online for that matter. I sent him a few messages on Skype and on the dating site basically telling him I would've appreciated it if he had told me he was done with me and goodbye. No response.
I'm just really confused as to what went wrong. Things were going so well and out of nowhere he just dropped me. It's not because he found someone else obviously since he is back on the dating site, and he was supposed to still be working and was not allowed to have his phone on him, but apparently that was not the case.
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You never know here, dear, just Who is behind that computer curtain and with a press of a Button... He is back on the dating site.
You are Right, he probably Hadn't 'Found someone,' but he grew cold duck feet when he woke up and realized he was getting knee deep into something he was Not raring and ready to do and tha twas to be Hooked at the hip with you.
He is back in the limelight and scouting and skirting for Other girls, which he most likely has found tons to talk with and flirt with. God only knows if this player is Out there Playing the same ol game he played with you, but I do Know that 'Goodbye' was the best thing you could have told him.
It's a gamble being on an Online date mate site but like I always Say: Plenty of fish in the sea.
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