I had been talking / video chatting to a guy for about a month that I met on a dating site. We were going to be doing long distance for a few months, then it would become short distance. (Was already planning to move)
It was going really well. We had a ton in common, got along great, and we both seemed to feel such a mutual connection with one another. He was so into me and planning to come see me sometime in the near future. He even took his profile on the dating site down before I did and then I did too afterwards. He even referred himself to me as my boyfriend. Recently he had gone away to work and had a hectic schedule. He would text me typically in the morning and then at night briefly.
He had been ignoring me for the last 5 days. I thought it was because he was still working, (Which he was supposed to be until next week) but today I just reactivated my profile on the dating site and saw he was back on it and even online for that matter. I sent him a few messages on Skype and on the dating site basically telling him I would've appreciated it if he had told me he was done with me and goodbye. No response.
I'm just really confused as to what went wrong. Things were going so well and out of nowhere he just dropped me. It's not because he found someone else obviously since he is back on the dating site, and he was supposed to still be working and was not allowed to have his phone on him, but apparently that was not the case.
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While there are decent people on dating sites who are truly looking for commitment, there's unfortunately also those who are on there to kill some time, get some compliments, have some fun, go on a few dates with nothing long-term on mind, etc. It sounds like he is the type of person who is on there looking to pass some time and to have some short-term fun. I've used dating sites in the past but I've gotten so frustrated with the weirdos and those who clearly aren't looking for something serious that I avoid them like a plague now.
I have no idea what this guy is trying to achieve. He must be a pretty horrible person deep down inside to mess with someone like that. I mean he clearly made you think that he had serious intentions since he said he was your boyfriend and removed his profile, making you think he was done with his search. I guess he just got bored. It's not your fault. You did nothing wrong. You're probably not his first victim either.
I suggest you stop trying to message him. He isn't worth your time. Imagine what a sad and misguided person he must be to be able to play with another person's feelings this way.0