So I just called it quits with my guy. While we never were offical, we've been together for a year. I've broken up with guys before, but I've never cried over one. In fact, I've never cried over a guy in my entire life. He grew distant, wouldn't talk to me, didn't want to by intimite with my anymore, because every time I asked he said now. But this was coming, because I was sick of getting treated like a sex object. it really hurts though, because I really liked him, maybe even loved him, and I was going to give him my virginity, now I'm glad I didn't. But what I need is some advice how to get over him. Because I don't want to be crying over him and want to move on in my life.
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I tell people this all the time: come up with a list of all the things that this person did that hurt you or was damaging to you. Come up with a list of reasons why you want to be with this person, and a list of reason why you don't want to be with this person. I recently went through this and when it was all said and done, when the dust finally settled from the thrill of having that person, I couldn't find one solid reason to be with her. And really just remind yourself of how unhealthy the relationship was and that this is the best for you. Also positive affirmations work too, here's a few that you can repeat to yourself in the showers or in the car or where no one is watching:
I am better off without him
I won't let him manipulate me
or whatever works in your case.1