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He's already too old to change... He's stick k bis ways.. U deserve much better thna that... I kno its hard bit leaving him might b better for u...1
He's already too old to change... He's stick k bis ways.. U deserve much better thna that... I kno its hard bit leaving him might b better for u...
I agree with the opinions of the women in this Q. The things you mentioned are fixable, but HE is the one who has to make the changes. There's nothing there you can do for him. If he's not willing to do those things on his own, you doing them FOR him isn't helping the situation at all. Do NOT be his enabler. After 5 years and he's still like this? You don't need to be miserable in a relationship.
They are fixable
It can be fixed, but he needs to want it too
All those things are fixable, but he's the one who has to do the fixing. You can't do that for him.
Whether to end it is your choice, of course, but as you know there are plenty of guys out there who do have their lives together or are at least heading in that direction.
If I were in your situation I would be thinking that 5 years of my life is more than enough to have put into a relationship that appears to have no real future.
It really depends on how much more time you'd like to spend on him. People won't change unless they want to change themselves, if he feels like you're nagging him, then that could push him further away. All of these things are indeed fixable but only if he wants to fix it himself.
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