I am always put in the middle and am tired of it I am The younger and graduating soon…I know I want to by with my dad in the end and my mom known it too and she just throws it in my face... I'm just have a hard time and need some advice
Most Helpful Guy
I've been in a similar situation, and i can relate to 'not wanting to get between' and what not, but here'S what happend to me:
when my parents were arguing a lot, my mom always asked me what i thought about it, and i always said 'i dont want to get between you 2'... later my mom killed herself!
i dont think that was the only reason, but it was def a part of it! i guess she just wanted to talk to somebody she loves! so definitely try to say more then 'thats between you 2'0
Most Helpful Girl
First off, your parents should NOT be putting you in the middle. You are their child, even if you are older or are a teen. It's not right to put kids in the middle of these things. You should not have to pick sides. If you want to live with your dad, so be it. I think you are old enough to choose who you want to live with.
I am so so sorry you are going through this :( I'm sure this must be terribly hard! I wish you the best. Try to lean on friends and try talking to your parents about how you feel you are being put in the middle. Maybe they don't realize they are doing this, but either way they should be aware and told it needs to stop. Speak to your sibling (s) too. Lean on them for support, maybe have a huge family talk because sometimes things need to be cleared up.1