I am always put in the middle and am tired of it I am The younger and graduating soon…I know I want to by with my dad in the end and my mom known it too and she just throws it in my face... I'm just have a hard time and need some advice
Most Helpful Guy
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Most Helpful Girl
My parents have never divorced, but on two occasions separated. From what I know about divorce when kids are involved it's that your relationship can fluctuate between one parent and the other. You have no idea at this point whether or not your mom will be in your life later on, so best not to snub her completely.
There are a lot of things to consider in the future where both of your parents are going to be incredibly supportive for you such as when you get married and have kids, or if you need to resolve things in life such as taking care of affairs should one or both of them pass away. To decide now that that's it for your mom and completely side with your father may sting your mom for a bit, but you should still smooth the feathers and just tell her it's what you want right now until the dust settles.
I don't know if you're making this choice because your mom did something stupid to your dad or if she truly is a terrible mom to you, but all I know is she's the only mom you'll ever have in your life and even if you are disagreeing and you are having a feud during this time, it would be unwise to completely cut the ties. You just never know one day when you may need to talk to her again, and when that time comes, you want to be accepted back with open arms.
But hey, what do I know.. I don't know your situation, I just have a feeling that like some others there is a chance your allegiance to your dad could switch to your mom some day or you might find that you'll find a way to divide your allegiance so that you can have separate relationships with one parent each time rather than simply decide you're going with one and not the other. No need to split things. That's what you're parents are doing. As the child, you have every right to continue being a daughter to both.0