Most Helpful Guy
Every person handles betrayal from their partner differently. Some get angry, while others cry uncontrollably. You decided to try and look at it from a logical perspective and seek answers. And the answer is, if he is looking at those sites, and clearly not working to commit to you, you really need to break up with him. It's become a toxic relationship, and the love that he use to have for you has now turned to bile and the longer you hang around trying to salvage the situation, the longer it's going to pain you when you come to the eventuality of breaking up with him because you find out he was cheating on you (run on sentence sorry). When you date someone, they need to be your center, your focus, and it's clear he's taken his focus away from you and on to other things. I may point out that it was a mistake in having a child with him outside of marriage. Not saying that marriage is some magical protector, but it does give you better rights in protecting yourself if he is cheating. So my suggestion, which would be the same advice to myself is to run and find a therapist because you'll need one after this. And then take yourself on a nice vacation, maybe Greece since everything is cheap there now, and come back and get into a relationship with a really nice guy who would never do that to you. I'm sorry, usually my answers are more detailed but I'm falling asleep. Coming off of a graveyard shift at the hospital. Hope things work out. And I would like to add a congratulations in your continual efforts to try to work on it. Most people would have just run away but you worked. But you don't have to keep fighting an endless war.
Most Helpful Girl
It's Cheating and not only This here, dear, he is Cheating you as well with doing this where you found his Underhanded hand in the sweet cookie jar.
I tis obvious that even fore the Seven year Itch has come on, he is Going around 'On 4 different cheating site,' and with the writing on the wall and all, it is quite clear that he is not happy in his current '5 years and I gave him his first and only child' Real Relationship he is in with you, and is getting this 'Itch' to find something on the other side of the Female fence now.
You can't Trust him anymore, he has now shown his true colors. No matter what title you slap him With, it should be something with "Bye loser" on it and something he can take with him as he is holding his walking appears in hand, this dog.
Many times many toms feel there is something finer on the other side, when one day they wake up and realize what they have lost and find out The grass ain't always greener.
Time to teach this tom some new tricks and make him jump through a few hoops to Teach him a lesson.
Good luck. xx