Broke up with someone I was seeing for 2 years because there was no commitment. He would generally bring up marriage but never commit to me. I didn't even get a reply back and there has been no communication ever since - a little over a month.
Now I'm feeling that I took the wrong step and want to go back to him? But I'm not sure if it's a good idea?
He really liked me and loved spending time with me but I was never really a priority. It's just that I miss him terribly and the fact that I was the dumper is keeping him from initiating any contact - ego problem I guess. Please help.
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If you wanted marriage and he didn't, then think you made the right decision. It sounds to me like he may want marriage in the future, but he wasn't ready for it at the time. If you are ready to settle down, then maybe it was for the better?
I know that when you dump a guy, sometimes you will regret your decision. I think that is pretty normal. I'm curious to know why exactly you broke up with him?
From what you have written, it sounds like he wasn't making time for you and wasn't really making you a priority in his life.
Let me ask you something. If you were married to him and he was ignoring you, how would that make you feel?
If having a commitment was important to you, and you talked about it and he never really felt compelled to move forward, perhaps it is better that you are now free. Think about it this way. You now have a chance to meet a guy who is going to make you a priority in his life. Someone who will make time for you.
I don't think you made a mistake. If you truly felt he wasn't making time for you and wasn't treating you right, you made the right decision.0