The worst thing is that we initially had a thing a few years ago. It ended amicably but when he came around this time he laid on all this stuff about how it had to mean something that he still thought of me after all that time and how I was always so important to him and all this other crap. Now, I find out he's dating a girl he met shortly before he met me (& he had a thing with her as well though I don't know how serious it was) and now I feel like the whole relationship was a lie. Like, how many girls do you feel this way about? I was feeling fine about the relationship ending and just figured our time ran it's course and now seeing that he's with an ex just made me feel so bad again because, for a while there, I seriously thought we'd end up married and I truly loved him and his daughter. I invested legitimate feelings into him/the relationship and it's clear it wasn't really the same for him.
I don't know what I'm asking for. Maybe just experiences with similar situations and how you got through it? I'm sure I'll be fine in time but this is really upsetting me. =/