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I was this guy for a while. I think I'm different now because now I at least admit that I'd like a relationship but I still haven't been in one for a while. I wouldn't say I'm a commitment phobe though because it's not a fear I actually (especially now) like the idea of commitment I just never meet people I want to commit too. It's always something. She's smart and fun but not really physically attractive. She's cute but I often feel like I'm her tutor or life coach. She's almost perfect but unmanageably emotional. it's like I have such a clear view of what I want and such a big aversion to settling that I'm just stuck perpetually walking and looking. I feel love and actually believe I feel love more than most but it's just not the kinda love I want to marry. Then the feeling of having to be honest to girls about how I feel sucks even more.