My boyfriend and I haven't talked for almost a week now, we had an argument which led to this. He said the way I think irritates him and he usually says rude stuff without thinking. I told him I'll leave him alone until he wants to talk but I just feel like the reason we haven't been talking is because he's talking to someone else. Or I'm not sure :-( . I feel like I'm just a burden to him. It's only been 4 months but I love him. I just don't think that he cares for me anymore or likes me so should I just break it off? We've broken up before but this time it'll be legit breaking up because he says really hurtful things to me and it makes me feel awful. He's said that he's been using me for sex, or that everything I do annoys him, etc but how that was all out of "anger"and he didn't mean it. I'm just on the edge of giving up with him. If he doesn't contact me by Saturday im just going to break up with him because I've been in a verbally abusive relationship and I don't want to go through it again. So should I just break it off with him? Thanks for your opinions :(
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I think you should break up with him. You don't have to suffer like this.0
Most Helpful Girl
If you both cannot get on the same page, @Moaning, and you See that you are in this 'Verbally abusive relationship' with someone who you have only known and been with for a few short months, think how much longer do you really think you can take of him and this Relationship if you Permit it to go on Much Longer?
I do not see anything but a full circle problem pattern going down a beaten path, just ending up to be a war of the romance Roses and Not going anywhere.
There is No compromise, no Open lines of convo and with him saying things, even if it is 'Out of anger,' doesn't mean that when he is This furious that the truth really does surface.
You are being shown no respect and if he doesn't try and make more of an effort to be a team member with you, then this so=called 'relationship' will end up going down the drain and perhaps it would be best for all concerned Because... I don' t want to go through it again.
Fair enough, give him until this weekend and then close the chapter to this fairy tale that never called for this knight on the white horse, just brought a lot of manure instead.
He could be very well 'Talking to someone else' and this is Reasons of the Seasons for giving you guff and lame duck excuses for even locking horns.
Good luck. xx2