I had a very good, very honest, loving, and satisfying relationship with a guy for over two years. We got engaged and everything was wonderful, until one day he just changes his mind, dumps me and "runs away." I was very very very hurt and it took me a year to get out of depression. Now that I'm over him and strong again, he has started pursing me telling me that he can't relate to any other girl like me and he misses me. I have no hard feelings against him at all, for there was a lot of love there, and I am fine being friends. However, I just don't know how to handle this. I don't ever cut people off, but I don't really trust him anymore. Not sure what to do.
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My guess he's just feeling lonely. He probably doesn't have a girl friend at the moment to keep him occupied, so he's trying to get back with you. The first thing he must do is to give you a satisfactory reason why he dumped you. Then hemust prove to you that this reason no longer applies. This will be difficult for him. You are wise not to trust him. It has to be earned over a long period of time, and it may never happen. If you are settled without him, and see yourself with a new guy, then that's the way to go. Your ex had his chance and blew it. I'm not sure that he deserves another.3
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