It can be either. But what are your intentions?
To make him wonder what I'm doing or miss me so he contacts me?
So you are not over him?
Then how about you reapproach him instead of playing games?Or better yet. Actually move on and forget him?
I can't re approach him because every time I contact him he ignores me and tells me he's just busy I'm sick of it. I want him to come to me?
I'm afraid this is a lost cause. You could start by spilling your feelings out but I don't think it's worth it.Just move on.
I can't bUT I want to come to me. There's no way for that?
If he rejected your attempts at getting back in touch then no, he has moved on and isn't interested. Besides... ask yourself. Would you really be happy if he were to come back to you only because you guilted/ manipulated him in to doing so? He would then just leave again anyway. If he doesn't want to come back on his own accord then this, I say again, is a lost cause.Do your heart a favor and forget him.
We'll He Said "I don't want to get back together now " so I thought that meant not now but later, right?
That was probably just an attempt at softening the blow.
So he doesn't want to get back together? He has feelings for me though
Then he's doing his best at moving on and getting rid of these feelings and you're only making it harder for him. Not to be offensive but you sound clingy... could that have been a reason things didn't work out?Either way, do both of you a favor and move on.
No of he really wanted to move on he could Im not talking to him. He's the one who has our pictures still all over his Facebook and he's keeping tabs on me online
Then I don't know what's going on anymore. Look, either you make him meet you so that you two can sort things out, or you move on. Siimple.
He won't tell me he's true feelings. I want to get him to contact me. How Do I Do THAT?
Do you have some mutual friends? Get that friend to 'meet' him somewhere only for you to show up in that friend's stead.
Set up a meeting through your mutual friend/s.
Why? I feel like our problems are our problems why bring other people in it
Well you can't get him to talk to you, you can't/ don't want to move on and you don't want others to help you in this regard. Then what else is there?I'll just say this one last time. Move on. If you're having this much problems with a guy it should be obvious it's not worth it.
We'll He'll Talk To Me BUT he's Feelings won't Be THE Truth So WHY Would It Matter If A Friend Is there?
He would move on.
He wouldn't wonder what I'm doing and contact me?
Have an opinion?
Can't say what it'll do to him, but it'll certainly help YOU move on.
Yeah I kinda wanted him to miss me enough or wlender what I'm doing to contact me
it doesn't matter... he is gonna find other ways to contact you
But Would THAT Make Him Miss Me More AND WANT To contact me?
if that was your intention then it's just stupid
Why? It wasn't my idea thoughWould it be better to do what I normally do and not pay attention because ist it better than blocking him and giving him attention?
Should encourage him to move on
more chances are that he would move on