We were together for 3 years and he dumped me six months ago because he got bored. He was about to enrol in a university and a big change was about to happen to his life. He kept using me and contacting me after he dumped me, I guess for closure or out of boredom and since I was so fucking weak I couldn't resist, I kept hanging out with him. He promised me he will never disappear. Well as soon as his uni started, guess what he did? He disappeared. Suddenly he doesn't give a shit about me. I know I was wrong for staying in contact with him, but it wouldn't matter anyway I would still feel the same. I hear he is very happy now, with his new happy life and his new happy friends. He used to be very antisocial, being home all day playing video games, and he was on Skype 24/7. Forgot to mention we were in a LDR. Now he is nowhere to be seen on social media. While we were together I adviced him to go out and do some activities because it's not healthy, but he was very addicted to his PC. Well being with him got me addicted too since Skype was our relationship. I hate that he is having a good life and is improving his life. I know it's selfish but it's not fair. We havan't talked for months and he is not showing on Skype either (he didn't blocked me, we have a lot of Skype mutual friends and they told me he is not online for them either). He is so immature he doesn't understand how much he hurt me. Not by breaking up but by what he did after, giving me hope and all that shit. He is probably gonna find a nice girl and have a normal happy life like never fucked up anything. He lived in his room for years and nothing bad ever happened to him, his parents spoiled him. But I believe that he was unhappy with his life and he finally realized he needs a change. Deep down I hope he grows up and becomes a real man one day and that he realizes what he did wrong and not keep me in his memory as something he did while he was stupid and immature, but something he should've done better.
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Karma isn't real. People are happy because of the experiences in their life not because they do good things.
If you do good things it is not guaranteed that you will have a good life, on the contrary it is more likely you will be taken advantage of.
If you want to be happy go out and find happiness and stop wishing ill on your ex it won't make things any better.0