I was dating a guy for two months, he was really hesitant about sleeping with me. I think this is because he has some seriously horrible stuff in his past, he was in love with an ex-girlfriend who passed away. He started to be a little more withdrawn, like texting me hardly ever, after two months but I didn't think anything of it because he was still happy to see me & he told me he was 'crazily attracted to me' We ended up sleeping together and I gave him oral and swallowed (I love doing that and I told him so). He told me 'I deserve someone a hundred times sweeter and better looking than him.' The next morning he was lying in bed watching me pack (I was going home for the weekend) and he was really quiet and looked angry or sad. Then he broke up with me, saying that I was too good for him, the classic 'It's not you it's me' speech. Was it something about the sex? Maybe I was less attractive than he thought I was? (I have quite small boobs :\)
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He has issues in his head space, probablyly stilll grieveing too.
Let him be, your not his therapist and it's not your responsibility to re-build him.
Reminds me of a quote " Its easier to drag someone down than lift someone up "
Get on with life, with luck in the future maybe he gets his shit together and catches up1