My boyfriend of 5 years and I were going to get together two weeks ago to talk about moving forward with our relationship as in marriage/kids. We were supposed to meet at a restaurant, but he showed up one hour late, drunk and got confrontational with the waiters and customers. He cursed everyone out, including me and left me in the restaurant with the food served in front of me, untouched because I was waiting for him.
It has been two weeks and he hasn't called me to apologize or to at least give me a clean break up if that is what he wants. Especially, I had made it clear that at this stage of the game if we don't share the same goals then we should go our separate ways. Not an ultimatum, just reality.
Today I went on Instagram and saw a few pics of him and his family. They went out to the beach. He looked different, clean shaven and new clothes too. I cried because I used to go with them everywhere. I miss him and his family very much.
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He sounds like a world class jerk. I think you're so much better off without him. He didn't treat you with the respect that you deserve. He might have his good family days. But sounds like he'll always have asshole days and won't eve acknowledge them. Do you really want to start a family with someone like that?0