Most Helpful Girl
She says there's nothing for her and she wants to do something with her life - first of all, life is what you make of it. People make the mistake all the time of thinking moving to a new city or new country will solve all their problems, but it doesn't; you just replace current problems with new problems. It's fine that she hates this job and wants a new one. But she shouldn't assume that moving to a new area will be the answer. Another job in this area could be fine. And she can't rely on you to do all the searching for her; she needs to hit the pavement herself. I also think she's upset that you didn't follow through and get the request like you said you would; she may be second-guessing being with you (but maybe not). Just tell her that you love her and support her and will be sad to see her go if she decides to.
Most Helpful Guy
Seriously, she's giving up a job and you are gonna half ass on helping her. I would suggest her going since you aren't taking her struggle seriously. If you really want her to stay then put more effort into making it a better situation to stay. Otherwise you are making choices that are going to have a domino effect in the future and the relationship won't end well.