So my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. As soon as we broke up with me he started dating some one else. I begged and pleaded for him back for a while (which I know is a huge mistake) and now I've decided to do "no contact" for 3 months. The relationship was 7 months and I don't know if I should try to get him back or what. We broke up because it was long distance and he couldn't deal with it but there were also other problems. He seems really happy with his new girlfriend which I'm happy for him because I always wanted what's best for him but I don't know what to do from here. Should I contact him after three months even if he's with someone? Is there any chance after then EXCESSIVE begging and pleading I did?
Most Helpful Guy
No. Stop begging and keep your dignity. HE isn't coming back and even if he did, he isn't worth it.0
Most Helpful Girl
To answer your question, no. I don't think that you guys will be getting back together soon.
You stated that he's already in a new relationship and he looks happy with the other girl. I just think that you should step back for a while. For YOUR piece of mind. If this was a dfferent case, and you just wanted to be friends, then yes, I'd think that you'd be able to handle talking to him. But at this point their is a broken heart involved. Which will make even more problems.
Another reason why there's a low chance that you guys will be getting back together soon is that you guys live long distance away from eachother and that you guys already had problems in the relationship. Was it trust issues or something? You have to consider if being in a relationship with these issues that you stated is healthy. You guys broke up for multiple reasons, and maybe the break up was meant to happen. Do you get what I'm trying saying? Well I hope I answered your question, and then some!! Good Luck, Sweetheart!😊❤️0