So my boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago. As soon as we broke up with me he started dating some one else. I begged and pleaded for him back for a while (which I know is a huge mistake) and now I've decided to do "no contact" for 3 months. The relationship was 7 months and I don't know if I should try to get him back or what. We broke up because it was long distance and he couldn't deal with it but there were also other problems. He seems really happy with his new girlfriend which I'm happy for him because I always wanted what's best for him but I don't know what to do from here. Should I contact him after three months even if he's with someone? Is there any chance after then EXCESSIVE begging and pleading I did?
Most Helpful Guy
No. Stop begging and keep your dignity. HE isn't coming back and even if he did, he isn't worth it.0
Most Helpful Girl
Similar happened with my ex. We were also in a LDR but we were together for 3 years. He dumped me just like that, using distance as excuse. I think I would've move on by now already if wasn't constantly contacting me after he dumped me. He asked me to watch a movie the very next day he dumped me! Then he would continue with small talks, sending me funny stuff from youtube and or telling about his day. He was trying to hard to just stay friends as we never were in a relationship. I was dumb to follow up hoping he's gonna change his mind, but nope. I did a terrible mistake by asking to get back together few months after. I couldn't understand why would he still want to be close to me if doesn't want to be in a relationship with me, so the only rational explanation was that he is having doubts and that all he needed was a little time. How dumb of me. He wasn't in doubt he was just using me for his own selfish reasons and disrespecting me. He didn't give a shit that I still have feelings for him. Eventually he disappeared when he found something else to occupy his time. I guess I learned on hard way and damn how I wish I did things differently. Should've blocked him or totally ignored him the moment after he dumped me. I don't want him back anymore, but I know how it is like to do. If you really want that I suggest disappearing and ignoring him. Give him a cold shoulder. He wanted life without you, now show him what is it like. But honestly, I envy you that he is not contacting you. At least he knows how to respect you. You will be just fine by keeping the distance.0