Most Helpful Guy
"I still love him but he's hurting me "A LOT"...
You're answer starts here. If you get a splinter it usually hurts, causes pain, wouldn't you remove it to get it to stop.
Loves a bit tricky, I know. It keeps us in toxic situations when we KNOW it's emotionally torturing us to remain there. No formula to really help you exact cause it will be hard to "move on". But you can do it, you have to, to stop receiving this bullied treatment you're taking. Good luck on your sitch.
Most Helpful Girl
If someone is inflicting hurt on you.. then its best you leave and not look back.
The fact that he dumped you and isn't asking to be with you , says a lot.
His actions also shows that he doesn't take you seriously in that way.
I think you should let him know how you feel, and close that chapter in your life.