My ex broke up with me twice and this time is not like the first time at all.
He is a very insecure, selfish, jealous person to the point where I think he's got trust issues and needs treatment, but I'm sure as hell he would never see this.
First time he broke up claiming he sees no future since we were in LDR. He came back then again broke up because of his crazy jealousy and assuming unreal things as if I wasn't loyal which is absolutely not true. He had been unfair to me that it hurts as hell. I even doubted that he might have cheated on me before so he accused me now out of nothing just to remove his guilt and not regret leaving me. He used to disrespect me with his words sometimes before, but this time on this breakup he called me names he never did before and blocked me everywhere when I confronted him. He never blocked me before. He seems to have someone else now he knew her about a month later after the breakup and he posted things on his instagram obviously to inform me that he has someone other than me,
Why would a guy be verbally and emotionally abusive? How do you describe a person with such personality?
Have you been there before? Do such guys come back even if after a long time apologize or regret? I can't expect what his feelings would be now since he has someone, but he was very resentful and angry in his last messages.
Please, share your stories and thoughts. I'd be more than thankful...
Most Helpful Girl
I'm sorry you had to go through this.
At times it is difficult describe why someone could be so heartless, cruel and mean.
Hopefully he reaps what he sows eventually.
I hope you realize that you didn't deserve any of the treatment he gave you.
The way same he ruined your relationship, is the same way he will ruin his current one if he goes in with the same attitude.
He seems to be filled with a lot of pain, hurt and anger.
He'll never have a successful relationship if he doesn't fix himself first.
Although it hurts that he broke up with you.
See the positive in it, you don't deserve any more of that abuse.
Now it's time to begin the healing.
Delete him from instagram and social media sites.
Don't monitor any of his actions, he isn't worth your time.
Best wishes good luck!1
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