So I've been having a bit of relationship troubles recently. My boyfriend and I are in high school- he's a senior and I'm a junior. He is my first love, and he means more than anything to me. However, in the last few weeks of summer I found that I hadn't been talking to him much, and I was starting to become more attracted to another man I have been talking to a lot. This got me worried. I would never think of cheating on my boyfriend, and I certainly don't love this other guy (at least I don't think so)
But the thing is, after this and the realization that he will be graduating this year and going to college, I seem to have lost the spark I have had for the year we've been together. I would never want to break up with him, and I wish I could enjoy every moment we have together before he leaves. But there's a part of me that just can't hold on to something that just feels... Doomed. I know I'll be heartbroken either way, and even though there's a tiny chance of us staying together; it would break my heart even more to see him grow apart from me when we are still technically together. I am talking to him about it tomorrow, but I can hardly sleep due to the amount of anxiety this causes me. Does anyone have any advice? Does anyone think we could make it work?
- Break up with himVote A
- Wait and seeVote B
Most Helpful Guy
taking someone else's choice away just because YOU don't know if HE will drift away is sucky I've had that happen to me and i resented it, i would have liked a say in that
talk to him a relationship includes two people dont make any one sided decisions that impact you both0