At this time last year I was a senior in high school. We were about three weeks into the semester, and my friends hooked me up with the only girl I have ever had a crush on. She was one year younger than me. I can't explain how happy I was. It was amazing. We had talked for a couple of weeks, and she invited me to go to her grandparents house with her one Saturday. While we were there, she asked me if she could be my first kiss. Without a doubt I said yes. She came over to my house a few times over the time we were talking, and we kissed many more times. One Sunday about 7 weeks after we had started talking she told me that she didn't want to be in any relationship anytime soon, because she had a dream about her ex boyfriend the night before. As much as it hurt, I was understanding.
A few weeks after all of that happened. She started talking to another guy. She has been with 3 different guys since me, and here I am a year later still broken. Everyone just tells me to "get over it" or "just find someone else", but I can't. And I really mean I can't. I can't find any girls that I find attractive anymore. And I just find myself missing her more and more every day. Especially if I see her somewhere. People say time heals everything, but a year after the fact should be plenty of time. I haven't been the same since all of this. Please give me some advice or feedback. I truly need it.
Most Helpful Girl
Alright, I understand. It hurts. Just keep your mind open because to me it kind of seems like you don't want to let her go. You can't still hold on to her if you want to move on.0
Most Helpful Guy
The worst part of it is that what people say is true. Time takes care of it. The problem is that time isn't exact. It can take more than a year, maybe more than 2... (belive me, with me it took a long time once), but with the time things will get better, even though today it doesn't seem that they will.1