Should I apologize to my fiances wife?
What Guys Said 2
I think you should really evaluate whether or not you should marry this guy. He left his wife and child when he was able to shack up with another woman and wants nothing to do with the child.
You did nothing to cause his other child to become fatherless. But when he leaves you with a child you will have had everything to do with that.
If you reward him for cheating he has no reason not to cheat in the future.
Well you didn't do anything wrong. Because you completely trusted him and we're actually lied to by him. I'm sure if you would have known about the "wife" you would have not proceeded with the relationship. So I see nothing wrong with what you did. I would just stay out of the situation, otherwise you'll be open to blame and retaliation.
What Girls Said 1
I think you should explain all this to his wife. Tell her you did not know that he was married and that you didn't mean to hurt her family. She may still be angry, but you apologized and that's the best you can do in this situation.
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