Well, I have fallen head over heels for this friend and I can't stop thinking about her. We are pretty close and it's killing me not being able to tell her. What's stopping me?
About 3 years ago is when I met her. We were just friends and I hadn't felt about her that way just yet. Along with others, we would hang out became part of our own 'group' in school. People started to tease us about being a couple and both of us would get annoyed. They would say how perfect for each other, we are and how we would make a cute couple. It was one of those playground stuff. Both of us were annoyed. Then she started this long term relationship with this other guy. They have an on-off relationship for two years. Their first break-up, that's when it happened. I was there for her and I comforted her. That's when I first felt attracted to her and thought I would ask her out. But she got back together and that left me feeling weird. I decided not to do anything. She breaks-up with him 3 more times and every time I would try and help her. I even tried to save their relationship at times (I am so stupid!) Every time I try to bring myself to ask her out, she would... well, you know.
Anyways, now those two are completely off and she hates men, she hates love and she hates the TV show 'Scrubs' (sorry, just felt like adding that). I had this talk with my other friends and to my shock, they all knew that I like her. I had told no one but apparently 'it is soooo obvious'. They are always encouraging me to do something about it, and fast. But, I just don't know what to do. I've been waiting so very long and my feelings for her only gets stronger by the day. I tried to 'brush it off' but well... here I am, asking for advice on the internet. I am clueless.
It would be great to hear advice and I thank you in advance.
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wow ,that must really be hard for you . the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel . find a day wen she is not stressed or really in a good mood ...tell her that you want to talk about sth very important...then let the cat out of the bag . at first she may act weird but as time goes by she may put ur feelings into consideration. and since you guys are very close there is a high chance that she also likes you. the truth always sets you free ...give it a try.