My boyfriend took me across country on a dream vacation to meet his family. Ever since we got back, he's gone from Jekyll to Hyde. I don't know what's up, and all attempts to talk result in aggression and silence. I'm not happy anymore, I don't feel safe, and I don't feel like I can trust him. His mom paid for our whole trip, then randomly bought me a brand new laptop before we left for home. I moved back in with my parents in preparation for the breakup, and now I do really need this laptop. He hasn't asked for it, and he didn't buy it. She brought him a new one too. Is it wrong to keep it? If he asks for it back do I have to give it back?
Most Helpful Guy
There is no requirement to return gifts. That said, if you had received some cherished family keepsake treasure I might be telling you to return it. But a laptop? Keep the gift. It was given to YOU. If he comes asking for it tell him he already has one.0
Most Helpful Girl
A gift is a gift... keep it.0