I know that may sound obvious, but it's hard for guys to fully understand since we can only see on a superficial level and essentially guess.
Please share your experiences
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What does it feel like... Imagine loving someone with you heart and soul. That person is an extension of you in every way and your life is so complete, happy and fulfilled. Then, one day you feel like sharp pain in your chest. The pain doesn't subside, it gets worse, it's like a knife turning over, and over and over in your chest. Your body feels numb, you cannot eat, sleep or think. Tears stream down your face uncontrollably and they don't stop. You try to feel but you can't. You have lost a sense of yourself, your emotions and a world you once knew. Once these feelings subside in perhaps a month, Deep anger settles in and your whole body is hot. You feel your heart beating VERY hard in your chest. Constant images of your ex and that person flash in your head. You keep hearing in your head, "Why? Why? Why? Where did I go wrong? What didn't I give him? What does she have that I don't? Why didn't he tell me he wasn't happy? Is she prettier than me? Is she better in bed? Is she skinny?" Meanwhile, any pictures you see of him make you even angrier and they get thrown away. You don't want to go out or talk to anyone. Your solace is your bed, a dark room and a cross begging God to take away the pain afflicted upon your heart.1