Okay so I started talking to this guy and at first I was cool with it. He was a very attatchable person and he became very clingy. Like he picked up pet names extremely fast and wanted to text me every living momement and for me to meet his parents (like two weeks into it). So I started appearing dissinterested in him trying to get out of it, but he confronted me on it after awhile and when we were talking I forgot why I didn't want to talk to him anymore and I ended up telling him we could continue. I know it's bad to lead him on, but I feel like I just missed my only shot to end it a better way. Is there any suggestions how I could make him less interested I dont want to just repeat what I did last time and just slowly back off? I am going to tell him Id just rather him see why we aren't gonna work when I do. That might not make any sense but any advice would be appreciated please. Thanks
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First you need to makeup your mind and decide if this is worth trying to work out with him or not.
If you still want to date him but his attachment is off putting, then you need to have a very frank discussion with him about how you do still like him but you need space and not rush things.
And again if you decide you don't want to bewith him, be open and TELL HIM. Don't play games and try and get him 'less interested' just tell it to him straight - you don't like him as much as he likes you and you don't want to pursue a relationship anymore. Don't offer to keep in touch and be friends because I guarantee he will still think he has a shot with you and will keep asking for second chances.0