My boyfriend and I broke up impulsively and out of anger. I first broke up with him because we got into a huge fight---but then a few days later, I called him & tried to talk it out and he said he loved me very much but agreed we shouldn't be together because we fight too much. He was scared one of us would get in trouble. He tells me he couldn't see himself with anyone else, loves me very much etc. He was begging me not to leave the night I broke up with him, but I did anyways. So this was a month and a half ago... and after our phone call, he just completely ices me out. Doesn't call, text, respond to me/nothing. Last week I see on Facebook he is in a new relationship. Wtf? One part of me says he was so hurt by our breakup , and he misses me and still loves me but knows we can't be together so he is throwing himself in a relationship with the first girl who gave him attention after me (she's not his type/not that pretty or fit) just to get over me. The other part of me says he just got over it, is an asshole & a liar and never really loved me nor cared like he said he did. And he is just some type of womanizer. HELP---what do you guys think? Is he rebounding hard or simply just OVER ME?
Most Helpful Guy
No i would never jump into a new relationship cause i was hurting
He sounds like a rebound0
Most Helpful Girl
I think people jump into relationships too quickly, without even thinking. And then they wonder why did it end so sudden. If he really is already in a new relationship and is actually happy and in love with her, then I would say he got over you, is an asshole & a liar and never really loved you or cared like he said he did. He probably got into a relationship with you also without thinking. But it can also be just a rebound. But then again why put a relationship status for a rebound and that quickly? Makes no sense. If a guy who I was seeing/dating for less then a month wanted ALREADY to make it official, I would smell something fishy honestly, that guy can't really be trusted. I would make if official maybe after like 4, 5 months, if I was really aiming to find a serious relationship. My ex and I broke up 6 months ago and we were together for 3 years. And I haven't even kissed any guy yet lol! What I learned from our break up is that I will never jump into things again so fast. Especially not put it on FB where I know he can see, that's like so disrespectful. And I really did love my ex. So my guess your ex never really loved you and doesn't give a shit anymore. That girl probably made him put it and he just put it because he doesn't care if it's official or not, he is leading her on - probably the same thing he did to you.4