Most Helpful Guy
"My boyfriend became super distant these past few months. A month ago he went out of state for some work. when he came back he made no attempt to meet me. "
^did sth happened there and he didn't wanna see u? there must be a reason for it of course...
"After a week, i asked him if he could come meet me to which he replied he had plans with his friends. I couldnt take it any longer and lashed out at him after which i got upset and apologized. He didn't say anything. "
^i see... sounds like he doesn't consider u first priority much... and after lashin out at him i guess he felt bad (or angry) and he went silent as it seems...
"The silent treatment has happened thrice before. The first time he had apologized and i took him back. tHe other two times, i was the one asking him back. Well this time after getting cold treatment from him i went into NC. today is the 10th day and i missed him so bad. I gave him a call and he didn't answer. "
^so it seems like he's still mad at u i believe... anyway... just leave it and don't initiate anymore... let him do... although i believe u shouldstart considerin movin on... seems like he's not da best kind of guy unfortunately if this happened trice... :/
"So i texted him that i was tired of this and if he wanted a break he should man up and say to which he replied he was at a meeting and that he'd call me later. As you can guess he didn't. I really dont know what to do. I feel so stupid for contacting him."
^don't feel stupid... u just miss him... yet i believe u have no right to be treated so badly and that's y i believe u should start thinkin about movin on... :)
Most Helpful Girl
How about break up? Clearly not worth being with someone who doesn't even want to work any issues out.