I broke up with him 3 weeks ago because of his posessive and controlling behaviour. After a few worse incidents I decided it was time to get the hell out of that relationship. He hasn't however left me alone. He follows me around and makes threats then other times he sends me texts begging me to take him back. I haven't told anyone yet. Not even my best friend. I almost told my brother two days ago but I chickened out. Don't need to bother him with this. Any advice on how to deal with this?
Most Helpful Guy
Here's what I would do in your situation. First, tell your psycho ex that if he keeps stalking you, you'll contact the police. If that doesn't work, tell a friend or family member you trust, and then get a restraining order against your ex. As a general rule, restraining orders are almost useless, but at least you can have him arrested if he gets really out of line.0
Most Helpful Girl
"Any advice on how to deal with this?"
The problem is you literally aren't dealing with it,
that's why it's not getting any better.
Your ex. boyfriend is harassing you.
You have to threaten him by saying you will call the police on him if he doesn't leave you alone.
-He's following you.
-You have messages to prove it.
You can get a restraining order against him.
Use the law... it's there to protect people like you from those who mean harm.
Besides, reaching out to the law confide in someone else (that you know), that you can get even more advice on this.
I am pretty sure, they will tell you to do the same thing.
You're allowing your ex. to treat you that way, by not nipping this problem in the butt.
If you continue to do nothing, he won't stop (things may get worse).1