So I'm just going to be forwarded with this. My girlfriend used to be kinda a slut... I've tried to move past this but I don't think I can... She's been with a lot if guys some of which keep coming back into her life... I just can't stop thinking about it and need to leave her... How can I do it gently? Without hurting her?
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If i were in her position, I'd rather not date someone who was so concerned about my sexual history. But I'm not in her position.
Is this the only reason you want to break up with her? If so, maybe reconsider. Everyone has the right to sleep with other people. Would you be offended if she broke up with you because you slept with other people? Try to see things from her point of view.
If you're absolutely sure that you want to break up with her, examine your reasoning. Is it really just because she's slept with other people? Are you sure this isn't an excuse for some other problem you're having? Are you insecure about your relationship? Tell her. Are you jealous? Tell her.
If/ when you break up with her, like Kelfuma said, be honest. Tell her that you're uncomfortable with her sexual history, and hopefully she'll have friends who are better at dealing with her right to have sex than you are.2
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