What is wrong withg me? Why can't i get over my ex after a surprise breakup he layed on me? He has moved on like nothing ever existed but im still holding on to the best of what made us one. How can I move past all this?
Most Helpful Guy
Time. Time is the overseer of all things1
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Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you have never met. You just can't! At the moment the pain is still raw, the mind wants to let go , but it is not so easy for the heart. You need to be patient with yourself, and take each day as it comes. Every morning when you wake up tell yourself that you are even stronger than yesterday, because you have gotten through another day without him.
All you can do is keep busy and keep your mind focused on things other than him. Gradually you will think about him less and less. Until one day you can think of him and smile instead of crying.
Don't lose yourself to someone who doesn't care about losing you, and don't waste your tears on someone who doesn't value them. Your heart is stronger than you imagine, it can be cheated, burned, betrayed and broken but yet, it does still work and will love again.
There is no remedy or cure for a broken heart. Time does not always heal the pain, but it does help you to learn to live with it. Our memory can be our worst enemy, and most of our pain we are dealing with is only our thoughts. The more you think about him and go over and over in your head about the times shared, why he left, and about what could have been... just keeps the pain still so raw.
I can totally relate to how you feel and trust me... holding on is so much more painful than letting go xx1