I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because I wasn't happy anymore, although I did love him but not as much as he deserved to be loved.. I felt like I was holding him back. I broke up with him through text because I'd already broken up with him before in person and it was too difficult for me to do it again since we had gotten back together, but my worry is that he didn't seem to even care. I sent him a long heartfelt message about my reasons and how it had nothing to do with him or anything that he did, it was just a matter of me trying to do what was best for me. But his response through text was "well um" "I don't know what to say... Okay i guess" and I don't undestand why that would be his reaction if he loved me as much as he described... maybe I was expecting him to fight for me or to at least tell me how he felt but that was litterally all he said to me and we haven't spoken since. I'm worried and I haven't stopped crying for a whole day. someone please give their opinion... thank you
Most Helpful Guy
Break up with him then cry he didn't "fight for you" and be "worried".
You are literally the worst kind of woman.3
Most Helpful Girl
if you already gave up on him, why do you want him to beg for you?
on the one hand you're saying here that you don't love him enough, as much as he deserves, so then why do you want him to put himself down for you?
if he did say something, will you go back to him? again?
it sounds like you've made up your mind to leave him. you're doing this for the second time. what do you think he's thinking? if you've already decided, what can he change? if you go back to him just to break up with him again, i think it's best to keep your distance from now and not hurt him any further than you already have. he probably thinks he's really not worth it for you if he failed to keep you happy.
i'm saying this from experience. i was about to break up, but we really talked it through and i realised i was giving up because i wanted to escape. only i know how broken he was. if i tell him again, he's really going to break from inside. i don't want him to lose his voice or his trust in himself that's already half shattered. i've decided to build us up once more. and so i will.
and i just noticed that you're only 15. not meant to be downsizing your emotions.. but how much of a relationship did you build between you two?
with me, i'm talking about a 5 year relationship here with 2 years long distance.
how much do you really love him? or is it just a claim?1