I want him to think it was his idea
what should i do?
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Maybe have an open discussion about where the relationship is, and if it's working for either one of you. If he doesn't want a break up, you aren't likely to make him see like it was idea unless you do something drastic like cheat, which will hurt him regardless.
If you talk to him and explain that things just aren't working for you anymore, there's a chance that he feels the same way. If he doesn't, then at least you got your cards out on the table, were honest, and have a clear opportunity to break up with him. Break ups hurt no matter what. While there are ways to make it easier on the other person he isn't likely to leave the situation unscathed.