realized you loved somebody once they found someone else?
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Thats not love dear, its because you ve always viewed this person to be a "back up" so once they got in a relationship with someone else, you realized that your back up is taken as well, left with no hope I suppose.
so you start having mixed feelings about it and mostly jealousy of what the other guy has. not because you re in love, its because your back up or that person is not available anymore, they moved on and they re with someone else, who is not You!
maybe you had a crush on her but didn't realize it untill now, its not love! certainly
if its not the back up thing then most probably its because you re afraid you might lose her as a friend...0