What is boyfriend trying to do. please help?
What Guys Said 1
"we met at my country last year and we hit if off real quick!"
^so u live in different countries i assume?
"we had a lot of problems n were on an 'on and off' relationship for 8 months (long dist)."
^hope distance was da only problem... and not anything else... ;)
"it ws like nothing had happened n we were still so in love. he asked me to commit seriously to him n asked meto marry him bla bla.. i saId ok, he also saiid he will find a job in singapore where i study n stay wime forever"
^so it seems like he's thinkin seriously about u... is he thinkin of movin out from his country in order to live wid u? if he does... then it means a lot u should know... ;)
"butthat can hpn only in jan 2016 so we still had like 7 months to go.. "
^4 actually... so time's approachin...
"n we continued our relationship lovingly. but just last month in July he went back to his home country which is egypt n all d probs came bc again.. he ws with his family so i thought he will b calmer but he bcame so insecure n jealous he wouldn't let me hang out with my frens at nyt. "
^sure LDR contain such probs unfortunatelly... since u live in a long distance... one person or da other'll start feelin insecure about wid who u hang out wid... :(
i believe if he really trust u he'd not feel insecure then... ;)
"SO I GOT angry and told him after convincin mny tyms dt we cudnt kip our relationship if he wudnt letme enjoy my life! he just said goodbye n ok. this was last week wed.. i apologized d next day n called him bt no repky."
^i see... seems like he's still mad... but u cannot do anything... it's up to him and only to overcome his insecurities... :)
"n wht is see is he blocked me n my sis off fb day before yesterday. however he unblocked me in 6 hours"
^he blocked u coz he was mad as i told u... but i believe he unblocked u coz his anger's been toned down... it's a good sign... ;)
"it is silly.. i can still message him! so i msged him askin whts wrong n said i would change fr him n listen to him"
^huh... so he demands from u to change for him? dat's bad then... :/
"he just ignored my msges n blocked me again on fb. i feel really hurt.. in 4 months he would b comin here to work.. dts wht he said n i dont wnt our relationship to brk again. please help me. i can't find answers!"
^well... wot can u do now's just wait for him till he comes... and see wot happen... i'd suggest u to leave him for now... :)1
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What Girls Said 1
Well, just ignore him.0
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