What is boyfriend trying to do. please help?

i have a much older boyfriend who is capricorn and his age is 29 now whereas i m 20. we met at my country last year and we hit if off real quick! although after 3 months i had to go to singapore to study so we continued being in long dist relationship.. we had a lot of problems n were on an 'on and off' relationship for 8 months (long dist). now in April i had to go o my country for my hols fr two weeks n dats wen i met him. it ws like nothing had happened n we were still so in love. he asked me to commit seriously to him n asked meto marry him bla bla.. i saId ok, he also saiid he will find a job in singapore where i study n stay wime forever butthat can hpn only in jan 2016 so we still had like 7 months to go.. now after two weeks i got bck to singapore n we continued our relationship lovingly. but just last month in July he went back to his home country which is egypt n all d probs came bc again.. he ws with his family so i thought he will b calmer but he bcame so insecure n jealous he wouldn't let me hang out with my frens at nyt. now if he ws wime in the same place i wudve listened to him but in this country i had noone but my fRens! SO I GOT angry and told him after convincin mny tyms dt we cudnt kip our relationship if he wudnt letme enjoy my life! he just said goodbye n ok. this was last week wed.. i apologized d next day n called him bt no repky. so i thought mayb i shud leave him alone fr sometym.. i did so fr 3 days.. n wht is see is he blocked me n my sis off fb day before yesterday. however he unblocked me in 6 hours. wht i dont understand is he blocked me on fb but not from on his phone. it is silly.. i can still message him! so i msged him askin whts wrong n said i would change fr him n listen to him. he just ignored my msges n blocked me again on fb. i feel really hurt.. in 4 months he would b comin here to work.. dts wht he said n i dont wnt our relationship to brk again. please help me. i can't find answers! his fmily is goin to leave to qatar next week n


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What Guys Said 1

  • "we met at my country last year and we hit if off real quick!"

    ^so u live in different countries i assume?

    "we had a lot of problems n were on an 'on and off' relationship for 8 months (long dist)."

    ^hope distance was da only problem... and not anything else... ;)

    "it ws like nothing had happened n we were still so in love. he asked me to commit seriously to him n asked meto marry him bla bla.. i saId ok, he also saiid he will find a job in singapore where i study n stay wime forever"

    ^so it seems like he's thinkin seriously about u... is he thinkin of movin out from his country in order to live wid u? if he does... then it means a lot u should know... ;)

    "butthat can hpn only in jan 2016 so we still had like 7 months to go.. "

    ^4 actually... so time's approachin...

    "n we continued our relationship lovingly. but just last month in July he went back to his home country which is egypt n all d probs came bc again.. he ws with his family so i thought he will b calmer but he bcame so insecure n jealous he wouldn't let me hang out with my frens at nyt. "

    ^sure LDR contain such probs unfortunatelly... since u live in a long distance... one person or da other'll start feelin insecure about wid who u hang out wid... :(

    i believe if he really trust u he'd not feel insecure then... ;)

    "SO I GOT angry and told him after convincin mny tyms dt we cudnt kip our relationship if he wudnt letme enjoy my life! he just said goodbye n ok. this was last week wed.. i apologized d next day n called him bt no repky."

    ^i see... seems like he's still mad... but u cannot do anything... it's up to him and only to overcome his insecurities... :)

    "n wht is see is he blocked me n my sis off fb day before yesterday. however he unblocked me in 6 hours"

    ^he blocked u coz he was mad as i told u... but i believe he unblocked u coz his anger's been toned down... it's a good sign... ;)

    "it is silly.. i can still message him! so i msged him askin whts wrong n said i would change fr him n listen to him"

    ^huh... so he demands from u to change for him? dat's bad then... :/

    "he just ignored my msges n blocked me again on fb. i feel really hurt.. in 4 months he would b comin here to work.. dts wht he said n i dont wnt our relationship to brk again. please help me. i can't find answers!"

    ^well... wot can u do now's just wait for him till he comes... and see wot happen... i'd suggest u to leave him for now... :)

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    • he replied finally! now he says he cannot make it to my country in jan because now his dad got sick n he has to serve in th e miliary and what not. so it will take years fr him to get out of his country n be with ne. so he is just asking me to forget him n move on! suddenly everything changed and he didn't keep his promise. i am so upset now. I don't know whether t forget him n move on or wht i shud do :,(

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    • i dont know what he doing.. he again unblocked me from everywhere and changed his display picture to a cute one.. is he trying to trick me into contacting him? O. o

    • if he blocks/unblocks often... better leave him... he's not "stable" u know...

What Girls Said 1

  • Well, just ignore him.

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