She would get onto facebook just to see what he posts, and would get angry if he interacted with any other girls. She even went so far to complain when he liked a picture I posted of a car... a freakin car.
After the longest duration of whinning and complaining, he finally gets rid of her and gets his own place with some friends and vows to never speak to her or hang around her ever again.
He told me that he liked me, we have similar interests and we get along for the most part, but there have been several set backs that made me second guess what he and I have.
One, he calls me a cuddle buddy. To me, that's saying he wants sex, he won't talk to me much during our days off of work unless a group of our co workers want to do something together which is rare. He'll talk to me during work if we are not busy but it seems like even then he has other interests besides interacting with me.
I've tried to be understanding when it comes to him hanging around other girls because since he and I do not have any official title, I feel like if I do get mad at him or question his actions, I will look crazy just like his ex. I try to drill in my mind that he will have female friends and that I need to be okay with that. So far, it has not bothered me as much as it used to.
But this is what does piss me off and I would like to know if I have a right to be.
I got told that he has been hanging out with his ex girlfriend. I had no idea that she had been visiting him at his house, and apparently its been going on for a few weeks. When I confronted him about it, he said that she brings her daughter up...
Really? That's the excuse. I don't really believe in him anymore, and I am beginning to think he is still hung up on her. This child is not his, but apparently that's why his ex comes around... behind my back. The more I think about it, the angrier I get because after all of the complaining, he still talks to her and hangs out with her.
He says he is allowed to have friends and its no one's business who he hangs out with but does he really think I am dumb enough to believe that he does not have feelings for her? Knowing him he probably has five other chicks off to the side I don't know about.
What do I do?