I know after breakups people tend to worry about being alone forever, but I'm seriously afraid that it'll happen to me. I'm 33 years old and my girlfriend of two years just broke up with me. And, I just can't help but think that it's just not in the cards for me. The older I get, the more it seems like having a family and a wife might not happen. It's an incredibly depressing thought and was wondering how other people felt with this thought.
Most Helpful Girl
You're still very young.
You have plenty of time to find someone.
I know you're down on yourself because generally you are the age where people start beginning their families.
"When one door closes another one opens"
You need time to get over the heart break.
When you do, put yourself out there.
You are bound to find someone else, especially if you have a lot of great qualities to offer.
Not everything works out the way we plan.
There are people in their 50's getting divorced... and they have to start all over again.
If they can do it... so can you!
You might not start a family at the age you want, but you will eventually.
Just don't allow yourself to stay down.
Get back up... and give love another shot.0
Most Helpful Guy
Just be aware that these are self-fulfilling concerns (if not prophecies).
Man, be cool. Be laid back. Get an online dating profile. Do volunteer work. Have a life as full of bliss as you can make it. The world is full of chicks who would love to get with a guy your age. As you get older you realize how many girls in their early to mid 20s are actually most attracted to guys in their 30s and 40s. Seriously. But you do have to be (relatively) attractive, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well.
So man up my friend. :) With respect. It's your life. Find your love. Good luck. :)0